Would you have a serious relationship with someone who married a mail order bride?
November 15th, 2009 | by admin |
honhill asked:
He married her when he was 25, that was back in 1993 when there were still “mail order bride catalogs” instead of “ordering” on the internet. He paid $2,000 to be introduced to this woman. He married her after writing to her for a few months and having one night of sex with her. She is Filipino. His Thai girlfriend had just broken up with him, he just had a serious car accident, and he claims that he felt lonely and bad about himself and that his scars from his accident were ugly and noone wanted him. Well, I recently saw some pics of him around that time, and he looked pretty darned normal. I’m thinking. . .this has got to be a red flag. In this day and age, what kind of man does the mail order bride thing? 1993 wasn’t the dark ages! I’m thinking he has some serious issues that I haven’t discovered yet or he is a total loser in some fashion and I should probably steer clear. He admitted it to me and he only recently told his family that he “purchased” his now ex-wife. Thoughts?
By the way, it also seems maybe he has an attraction to certain Asian women, and I am white? He only had one other serious girlfriend who was white. I don’t know if that is relevant or not.
For the smart aleck guy, how many sexual partners I had is not the issue; the issue is couldn’t ordering a wife be a sign of something not being quite right with him?
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He married her when he was 25, that was back in 1993 when there were still “mail order bride catalogs” instead of “ordering” on the internet. He paid $2,000 to be introduced to this woman. He married her after writing to her for a few months and having one night of sex with her. She is Filipino. His Thai girlfriend had just broken up with him, he just had a serious car accident, and he claims that he felt lonely and bad about himself and that his scars from his accident were ugly and noone wanted him. Well, I recently saw some pics of him around that time, and he looked pretty darned normal. I’m thinking. . .this has got to be a red flag. In this day and age, what kind of man does the mail order bride thing? 1993 wasn’t the dark ages! I’m thinking he has some serious issues that I haven’t discovered yet or he is a total loser in some fashion and I should probably steer clear. He admitted it to me and he only recently told his family that he “purchased” his now ex-wife. Thoughts?
By the way, it also seems maybe he has an attraction to certain Asian women, and I am white? He only had one other serious girlfriend who was white. I don’t know if that is relevant or not.
For the smart aleck guy, how many sexual partners I had is not the issue; the issue is couldn’t ordering a wife be a sign of something not being quite right with him?
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6 Responses to “Would you have a serious relationship with someone who married a mail order bride?”
By romanian mail order brides on Nov 17, 2009 | Reply
No, he may sell you.
By european brides on Nov 17, 2009 | Reply
how many dongs did you have in you before him?
By on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply
i think he does like asain women more than whites from what you are saying on here. if he did this mail order bride thing i think he has alot of issues that only he can deal with needs help. i would never ever even if it was free get involved with ordering a girl off the internet or by catalog sounds to freaky and desperate
By latin brides on Nov 21, 2009 | Reply
Im thinking he seems a little shady!!! I would def. not be hooking up with him. If you are having doubts then that is probably a sign to get away now!!! Good luck!!!
By chinese mail order brides on Nov 24, 2009 | Reply
I would personally stay away from anyone who would buy a woman like a possession.
There must have been something seriously wrong with him if he had to pay 2000 for a wife. I mean can you imagine how undesirable he must have been to women? There must have been something wrong with him.
I’ve got no respect for men like that. He probably likes to control a woman because he chose a wife from a submissive culture.
Have you ever met a normal guy who has done that? Normal guys dont do it.
Sorry but I would run a mile.
By african brides on Nov 26, 2009 | Reply
Red Flag! Red Flag!! Only desperate people would order a bride, and besides the fact, it is very degrading. Ask yourself if you want to be with a person like that. Who knows, he might be very controlling, I have read stories of people whom were brides and they have said that the husbands bought them to basically be slaves.