November 15th, 2009

honhill asked: He married her when he was 25, that was back in 1993 when there were still “mail order bride catalogs” instead of “ordering” on the internet. He paid $2,000 to be introduced to this woman. He married her after writing to her for a few months and having one night of sex with her. She is Filipino. His Thai girlfriend had just broken up with him, he just had a serious car accident, and he claims that he felt lonely and bad about himself and that his scars from his accident were ugly and noone wanted him. Well, I recently saw some pics of him around that time, and he looked pretty darned normal. I’m thinking. . .this has got to be a red flag. In this day and age, what kind of man does the mail order bride thing? 1993 wasn’t the dark ages! I’m thinking he has some serious issues that I haven’t discovered yet or he is a total loser in some fashion and I should probably steer clear. He admitted it to me and he only recently told his family that he “purchased” his now ex-wife. Thoughts?
By the way, it also seems maybe he has an attraction to certain Asian women, and I am white? He only had one other serious girlfriend who was white. I don’t know if that is relevant or not.
For the smart aleck guy, how many sexual partners I had is not the issue; the issue is couldn’t ordering a wife be a sign of something not being quite right with him?
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